The Personal Development Course

Weekly Lessons

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Class Syllabus

Your Weekly Personal Development Course
For Growing Your Consciousness
BEING Power Evolving
The PD Course Weekly Lesson Schedule
All Calls are on Wednesdays – 9am PT / 12 Noon ET / 7pm Turkey

 

Introduction Call

Lessons-

  • PD Course Introduction
  • Choosing Your Goal for The
  • Workshop
  • The PD Course Participation
  • Agreement
  • Your BEING Coach’s
  • Responsibilities
  • The Powerpact Meeting Where
  • Transformation Happens
  • What We Teach And Why It Never Fails

Call 1 –

Goal Setting – All Participants
Lessons –

  • Understanding Is The Boobie Prize
  • Understanding into Actually BEING
  • Setting Your Goal for The 16 Weeks
  • Know What You Want And Choose It
  • How to Be A Responsible Powerpact Partner
  • The Want / Don’t Want Exercise

Call 2

Lessons –

  • The Source Always Says “Yes”
  • Why Diets Don’t Work
  • The 20 Reasons Exercise
  • Understanding The BEING Principle
  • Powerpact Integrity Exercise

 

Call 3

Lessons –

  • Give Your Ego A Loving Name
  • Ego’s Tricks And Traps
  • The Manifestor’s Success Formula
  • The Self-confidence to Know What You Want
  • The Courage to Choose It
  • The Self-worth to Accept It
  • The Winner’s Attitude to Attract It

Call 4

Lessons-

  • Your Reality Concept Filter
  • Have You Really Chosen?
  • The First Rule of Success
  • The Remarkable Power Pause
  • Acquire the Power Pause Habit

Call 5

Lessons-

  • The Real Benefits of BEING Real
  • How to Make The Fear Go Away
  • The Natural Order of Change
  • Reject The BEING Choice That Manifested The Undesirables
  • BEING Responsible for Where You Are Now

Call 6

Lessons-

  • Steps 3 & 4 Of The Natural Order of Change
  • The Truth Will Set You Free
  • Integrity, Being True to One’s Self
  • Once You’re Committed
  • Managing Your Fears

 

Call 7

Lessons-

  • Change Your Relationship to Money
  • Attract Money Like A Magnet
  • Have You Chosen to Be Rich Or Wealthy?
  • Believe It Or Not

Call 8

Lessons-

  • Your Spending Habits
  • Your Earning Strategy
  • Your Stories About Money

Call 9

Lessons-

  • Rewrite The Story That Runs Your Life
  • Save Your Dysfunctional Relationship
  • Three Basic Elements of A Healthy Relationship Where You Are Now

 

 

Call 10

Lessons-

  • Be Careful What You Say
  • If You Care, You’re Screwed
  • Indecision Sucks The Life Out of You
  • Experience The Pain And Rise Above It

 

Call 11

Lessons-

  • Why Destroy When You Can Detach
  • Ready, Fire, Aim

 

Call 12

Lessons-

  • BE, DO, HAVE
  • Make Decisions Quickly And Easily

Call 13

Lessons-

  • What You Resist Persists
  • The Law of Attraction

 

Call 14

Lessons-

  • Anger Is Fear Pretending to Be Brave
  • You Can’t Win While Trying Not To Fail

 

Call 15

Lessons-

  • Live Your Life As A God
  • Life Is Either A Daring Adventure Or It Is Nothing
  • A Beautiful Black And White Picture

 

Call 16

Lessons-

  • The Most Important Call of All
  • So What Did You Get?
  • The Consciousness Curve
  • Why You Need A Coach
  • Why You Need A Support group

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Once Committed

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Once Committed

Once you’ve committed, all kinds of remarkable things will begin to happen as if by magic. But it’s not magic; deciding to HAVE what you want is simply a BEING choice manifesting.

About 70 years ago, I think it was in 1949, I stood up in a study group for reading “Think and Grow Rich”, by Napoleon Hill and declared in that meeting that I would be a millionaire. That commitment, being a millionaire, was a much bigger deal back then than it would be today.

That commitment manifested without any determined effort on my part. And because I was totally committed at the time of my proclamation, my becoming wealthy manifested as my material reality without any need on my part to stay focused on that outcome.

I like to say, that in that moment of commitment, it was a “done deal” in consciousness. The Source got the message and said, “Okay, you got it!”

That is the awesome power in being committed. You’ve got the power of God backing up your BEING choice. So, what does it mean, to “be committed”? And how will you know when you truly are committed?

Once you are committed, you will stop saying the wishing words like, “I want”, “I wish”, “I hope”, “I would like to have” and you will commit to BEING the one who “WILL HAVE” the desired outcome.

Being committed is like the certainty you had when you stopped kicking the tires on that car and told the car dealer, “I’ll take it!” It would be like when you stopped wanting or wishing you could have something and told yourself with conviction, I WILL have it!

Once you’ve committed, all manner of wonderful things will begin to happen as if by magic. But it’s not magic; deciding to HAVE what you want is simply a BEING choice manifesting. You are an individualization of God, and as such have just committed your BEING power.

You’ve just created a new reality in which you WILL have something which until the moment of commitment, you only wanted.

BEING power is the power to choose who you will be. And having found that power, you’d be deciding what belongs in your life and what does not. The point being that, as the God individuated in you the day you were born, when you make a solid BEING choice it must manifest. That is the power to be found in being committed!

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For Growing Your Consciousness BEING Power Evolving

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** Personal Development Course Participation Agreement **

     Your word is powerful to the degree that you keep it!

Self-confidence is the most powerful form of riches on the planet because once you have that, the world is yours on a silver platter and whatever else you want will come to you, easily and effortlessly.
Self-confidence comes from becoming clear about:
-Who you are
-What you want
– and in having the courage to choose to BE the one who has that outcome manifest as your material reality

In this Personal Development Course, that’s what we do — we help you to know who you are, help you decide what you want, and then with coaching, and support group mentoring, lead you through the process of committing to BE the one who realizes the desired outcome.

In this course we will lead you through this transformational process every eight and sixteen weeks. With each manifested result you will grow more confident and more consciously aware of your manifesting powers. In this course, you could double, triple or even quadruple your belief in yourself. And that’s why you’re here.

What you may not know is that you already have the ability, the personal power to manifest any result you can imagine and believe in. There’s no limit to the quality of life changes you could have in your life other than the ones you’ve placed on yourself.

Your manifesting powers are determined by the degree to which you believe in yourself, your personal integrity. You will be empowered to the degree that you keep your word. Integrity is one of the most important personal powers to be gained from being a participant in this Personal Development Course.

Your spoken word has a great deal more creative power than you’ve allowed yourself to see. And because you are unaware how powerful you are you will often say things that reduce you to powerlessness.

Because you are not fully aware that your verbal statements are self-fulfilling prophecies, you’ll often say things that make life worse instead of better. When you say, “I’M SICK AND TIRED OF….”, you get to be sick and tired, actually manifesting your spoken words.

When you say, “I’M POOR, GOD, PLEASE MAKE ME RICH”, God says, You got it, you’re poor.” You’ve used your spoken word to declare yourself poor.

If you told me a victim story, I’d respond with, IF YOU SAY SO.” And I’d be right because your spoken word is law in the Universe. Whatever you say must manifest as your material reality.

You have the power to create your own reality. Once you’ve chosen who you will be, your life becomes an agreement between you and the Universe as to who you will be. The Universe, Source, or God then automatically delivers content that is a perfect match for whoever you’ve chosen to be.

You made the agreement and the Universe always says, “Yes”, keeping the agreement.

So, how do you put the power back into your word? Pay close attention to the words you speak and begin choosing language that empowers you, like “I am, I can, I will”

Take charge of your thoughts.

As an individualization of God, we become what we think about and manifest a reality that will be a perfect match for that way of thinking.
With that in mind, make an agreement with yourself to listen to everything you say, pay attention to the power or lack of power those words convey, notice how you feel as you speak those words. Source is tuned into your attitude as well as your words. As you listen, ask yourself if those words project power or powerlessness. Then make a new agreement with yourself to grow your personal power by being consciously aware that the power of God in you gives power to your spoken word.

Choose to feel the power in your word each time you speak and you will begin to feel more powerful. And feeling powerful will move you more quickly and easily toward becoming a powerful result manifestor. Feeling powerful will allow you to set your goal for the course knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt that your desired results will manifest.

Now, let’s talk about how to begin the process of making your word powerful. When you make an appointment to meet someone at a specific time, you’ve given your word. And each time you show up on time your word is empowered.

But if you fail to show up on time, you’ve rendered your word worthless. You have proven to yourself that you can’t be counted on to keep your word. And it’s you not the other person who is most damaged by your lack of integrity.

The power of God in you is in your word, whether you’ve realized it or not. Failing to keep your word uses that God power to declare yourself powerless. Your spoken word has power and your manifesting powers will grow to the degree that you believe in yourself enough to always be on time.

Think about this when you’ve agreed to be somewhere at a specific time. You’ve given your word. How often to you keep your word?

In the Personal Development Course there are three important calls you will be committing yourself to attend.

 

  1. The Wednesday morning Personal Development Course call
  2. Your weekly coaching call with your assigned Being coach
  3. And your weekly Powerpact support group call
    The most important of the three weekly calls is your Powerpact support group call.

     

    This is a transformation course in which your ego must be transformed into the new way of BEING to complete your transformation; Ego’s transformation takes place only in the space of non-resistance.

Now, in an ongoing exercise for this current course, with the intention of putting the power back into your word I’m asking you to sign this agreement with yourself and the other participants in the Personal Development Course that you will show up for each of the three weekly course calls and you will be there 3 to 5 minutes early

Wholehearted participation in this course is a commitment to set aside 3 1/2 hours each of the 16 weeks for reading the lessons and attending each of the three calls each week. If there is some unavoidable reason you must miss one of the calls, please advise Sherry, your coach or your Powerpact partners well in advance of missing a call and only reasonable excuses will be accepted for missing a call. Please fill out the agreement and email it back to us as soon as possible.

I agree to show up for each and every Personal Development Course call 3 to 5 minutes early. I will also be on the phone early for each of my coaching calls and Powerpact calls. If there is some unavoidable reason why I must miss one of the calls, I will advise Sherry, my coach or my Powerpact partners well in advance of missing that call.

I understand that failing to keep this agreement puts me out of integrity and diminishes my personal power.

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Introduction and Logistics

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Personal Growth Course Introduction & Development

 

God individuated Himself in each of us the day we were born, giving us the freedom to choose who we would be and what we would believe. He gave us the power of a God, the power to create our own reality and we’ve been doing that from the day we were old enough to think our own thoughts.

God gave us His power and the free will to choose how we would use that power. But no one told us we had the power, so we’ve been using that awe-inspiring power from day one, creating who knows what, without a clue that we were creating our own reality, creating our own problems.

Our true mission in life whether we’ve realized it or not has been to discover our God power. We were looking for personal power, making BEING choices that would transform us and the quality of our lives. Of course we didn’t know that our personal power and God power were one and the same.

The power of God in you is BEING power. And BEING power is the personal power you’ll use to transform your life in this sixteen week Personal Development Course.

BEING power is the power you and I have to create our own unique individuated reality just by choosing who to BE and what to believe. We use this awesome power each time we decide what to think, what to believe and how to feel about life.

Creating our own individuated reality is that simple. Once we’ve committed ourselves to a way of BEING, the Universe responds, automatically, by delivering into our lives who and whatever belongs in the reality of that new commitment.

Imagine that! You could have whatever you want from life just by changing your mind about who you will be and what you choose to believe. In this Personal Development Course you will be transformed by changing the pattern of your thinking.

It really is that simple, but if it were also that easy, there would have been no benefit in your enrollment in this Personal Development Program. For the next sixteen weeks on Wednesdays at 9am PT / 12 Noon ET we will meet for a one hour phone conference call.

And once a week you will meet at a mutually agreed time for your Powerpact support group call, and you will also meet each week with your BEING coach.

We choose who we will be and the Universe automatically delivers appropriate content. Life is that simple! But we’ve forgotten we have BEING power and we’ve gone off and left our egos in charge of running our lives.

You are in this Personal Development Program to be transformed and you can expect your ego to attempt to sabotage that change. But, now that you’re in this course, with support from your Powerpact partners and your Being coach you’ll easily overcome that resistance and put the Spirit of God in charge of running your life.

In this transformation course you’ll be using your God Power (BEING power) time after time to improve the quality of your life. And each time out of your box, you’ll be growing your consciousness, your self-confidence and your self-worth.

Stop and think about how many ways the quality of your life could be improved during this transformation course! You could be healthier, happier, and richer with a new BEING commitment!

This course is not like anything offered because it takes BEING the God individualized in you out of theory and into practice.

In the process of learning how to use your BEING power to manifest remarkable results, you will experience BEING God. You’ll experience the awesome power that comes to you when you stop praying to God and realize that you are praying AS GOD.

Your belief in an indwelling God will do nothing to change the quality of your life. But once you’ve proven that theory to yourself with manifested results, you’ll go beyond believing to knowing.

You’ll know that once you’ve spoken your word as an individuation of God, certain that the Universe is behind your new intention, the Source has no choice except to deliver into your life the desired result.

In this Personal Development Course you’ll experience just how powerful a manifestor you really are. You’ll go from believing in God to BEING God. And when you’re praying AS GOD instead of to God, your prayers will be answered. Think about how powerful that makes you!

Picture everything you want from life coming through a giant resource funnel, with God or the Universe (the Source) at the large end of that funnel and your self-image as the small receiving end of the funnel.
The supply at the source, the large end of the funnel is limitless and everything you want from life is there just waiting for you to claim it. But what you may receive from the source will be limited by the size of the opening at the small end of the funnel.

Your self-concept combined with your concept of reality form the small receiving end of the funnel. Allow yourself to see that your self-limiting self-image limits what can flow through from the Source.

Each time you step out of your box to improve the quality of your life with a new BEING commitment, you’ll become more consciously aware of your God Power (BEING Power).

You’ll do that frequently in this self-growth course. Each time you say “I am” and complete the statement with a new BEING commitment, you’ll grow your God power consciousness, which just naturally, expands the opening at the small end of our resource funnel.

It is the purpose in this transformation course to help you grow the size of the opening at the small end of your resource funnel. In fact, we’ll be teaching you many ways to say “I am” and grow your consciousness.

The Introduction call and call #1 lessons will help you set your goal(s) and prepare you for your meetings with your coach and your Powerpact partners.

Every call will begin with gratitudes, then a brief talk and then the rest of the call will be opened to questions and answers.

In the first call after the Introduction Call, you will set your BEING commitment goal(s) for the sixteen weeks.

Then call 2 and every other call after that will follow the course format. Your participation is how you’ll get real value out of the call.

A week prior to each call, you will receive the Personal Development Course lessons for the following week’s call. There is more reading for the first few calls, but don’t let it overwhelm you. The number of lessons will decrease as the course progresses. Latch on to the lessons that appeal to you and let the rest slide.

The content of these lessons will be the subject for discussion on the following week’s call. Calls will be recorded and you will be sent your copy so you can listen to them again and again.

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Setting A Goal For The Sixteen Weeks

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Setting A Goal For The Sixteen Weeks

 

On Call #1 of the Personal Development Course participants will set the goal(s) they intend to manifest in the next sixteen weeks.

To make sure every participant has ample time to set their goal in during the call you’ll want to be ready with your goal when it’s your turn. You will want to have previously decided and be clear about your intention so that you can share your new BEING commitment.

Just keep in mind the goal you set is primarily a new BEING commitment, not a DOING decision. There will probably be doing involved, but you’ll be committing yourself to BE the one to do the doing. The creative process is BE DO HAVE not DO HAVE BE.

If you’ve chosen a goal too far out of your box and way beyond your own ability to believe, you will be challenged

In the Personal Development Course we know that once you’ve made a solid committed BEING choice, your intended results must manifest because you are an individualization of God.

But you don’t know that for certain yet so we’re expecting you to prove that to us and yourself with manifested results during the sixteen weeks of this course.

The size of your goal is important.

There is absolutely no limit to what you can manifest, other than the restrictions you’ve placed on yourself by deciding what you believe is possible for you. But during this PD Course you will raise that limit and manifest corresponding results many times.

When you set your goal, we ask that you choose an out of the box result that takes you outside your comfort zone and puts you in a sweat. But don’t choose a goal that’s so far out of your box that you don’t really believe it can happen. You MUST believe it will happen or it won’t.

That’s the number one rule in goal setting.

You MUST believe it will happen or it won’t.

You will manifest results only at the level of your belief in what’s possible for you. So, if you are not totally convinced it will happen, it won’t. Your ego would be happy to have you choose an unbelievable goal.

In other words, you can expect your tricky ego to suggest a goal that is too far out of your box because it wants you to fail.

That’s why you must choose a goal that’s a BABY STEP toward your ultimate goal. If you manifest your intention before the end of the sixteen weeks, you can immediately choose a bigger step.

It is always good to have a long term goal in mind, one that keeps you focused on where you’ll end up, but for this 16 week process, you’ll be taking only baby steps in that direction. Please don’t discount the value of baby step goals.

You are an individualization of God. Whatever you choose to believe will manifest and your goal size will increase as you raise the bar on your ability to believe. For example, if you were to increase your income by only 30% every 90 days for the next three years, at the end of that period, your income would be 65 times what it is now.

The size of your manifestation this time around is not the important factor. What’s important is that you be able to step back at the end of sixteen weeks or less and say to yourself, “Wow, I really am that powerful!”

Then for your next baby step you can double your current goal size.

Let us know immediately if you would like help with your goal setting process. Send your request to Sherry at darel@richbits.com or call 505-280-0930.

Imagine living your life as daring adventure, stop and think about that idea for a moment and maybe you’ll want to choose that as one of your goal(s) for this transformational personal growth program.

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The Powerpact Call

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The Powerpact Call – Where Your Transformation Will Happen

 

Of the three weekly calls in the Personal Development Course, the call with your Powerpact partners is by far the most important.

This is so, because in order to improve the quality of your life in any way, you must be and become more than you are now. You must be transformed into a new way of BEING you. And before you can complete the transformation, your ego must have accepted the new reality concept hook, line and sinker by BEING and BECOMING you in that new way of BEING.

It is a rule of life that in order to manifest any improvement in the quality of your life you must first, have changed your mind about who you will be. You must be transformed into a new way of BEING you. Keep that in mind when you chose the goal you intend to manifest during the sixteen weeks of this course. That’s why you signed up for this sixteen week course, to become more than you were, to be transformed.
The primary function of the Powerpact is to provide the space of non-resistance so that each of the partners will be transformed. But in order for that support to do its job, you’ll have to toss in a few moments of confront in the form of tough love.

Each Powerpact partner will have a goal(s). You will offer your support in the setting of that goal and you will make it your intention to know what that goal is and to add your empowered intention to theirs for the manifestation of their goal during the course.

Your job is to encourage them in the process of growing in confidence and consciousness and to help them stay on purpose and empowered in their dealings with ego resistance each week coming closer to manifesting It is so important that each of you makes your Powerpact calls a priority in this course.

If it was your goal, for example, to get to the other side of the lake, your ego would have to pick up the oars and begin rowing the boat. Until your ego accepts that role, it is your job to sell it on the benefits of being happier, healthier and/or richer.

The only space within which egos can and will change is in the nonresistant space of Unconditional Love, where there is no intent to fix or change your ego. Only in that non- judgmental space, can and will your ego be transformed by stepping out of the old into the new.

The non-judgmental space where ego transitions happen in the Unconditional Love created for you by your Powerpact partners during each Powerpact call.

Unconditional Love is not always sugar and spice. Sometimes loving someone unconditionally requires confrontation and a new agreement in which unacceptable behavior will no longer be tolerated.

Confrontation in this way is the application of “Tough Love”. And sometimes tough love means putting your foot down and saying “NO!” to the unacceptable behavior of another.

Not showing up or being late for the scheduled call, are examples of unacceptable behavior from a Powerpact partner. You are meeting as part of a Powerpact for the primary purpose of being supported and supporting each other in dealing with ego resistance.

You’re not there to fix or change each other. Offering suggestions for solving their problems is coaching and coaching is not a function of the Powerpact. You might ask a question that leads a Powerpact partner to find their own answer, but don’t play the coach. Don’t solve their problem for them. Coaching is not a part of the Powerpact call!

Any conversation or activity that takes you out of integrity or outside the purpose of dealing with ego resistance should be considered unacceptable behavior. If Powerpact partners are not BEING real, if they are running their act, they’d be out of integrity and should be called back to reality, into BEING real. That’s “Tough Love”.

Every long lasting relationship, almost without exception, has three basic elements in play, each of which is necessary for keeping the relationship alive, strong and healthy. Those three basic ingredients for a happy long lasting relationship are:

  • Unconditional Love
  • Appreciation and
  • Confront


You’ll want to apply all three of those elements of tough love in your dealings with your Powerpact partners.

A relationship has no chance of surviving long term if the partners lack the courage to confront each other’s unacceptable behavior. And the Powerpact support group will not truly support the partners in achieving their desired results without the courage to confront each other if there is a lack of integrity.

Here’s what Unconditional Love looks like in action:

“I love you for who you are BEING, but I totally disapprove of what you are doing. It is not okay with me that you sometimes fail to show and are late for your Powerpact calls. From this moment forward you can consider that sort of behavior as unacceptable for participation as one of our Powerpact partners.”

  • Unconditional Love
  • Appreciation and
  • Confront

Add all three elements to you Powerpact meeting and your Powerpact partners will love you for giving that quality of support.

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What We Teach and Why It Never Fails

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What We Teach and Why It Never Fails

 

The intention of the Personal Development Course is to provide the space within which you will learn how to choose your way out of any reality concept that no longer pleases, serves or nurtures you.

Then once you’re out of that old box, we’ll have you making a new BEING commitment that transforms the quality of your life around health, wealth and relationships.

And as the course develops and because personal growth is a never ending process, you’ll make many new BEING commitments, growing in personal power and consciousness each time out of your box

That sounds simple, and it is. It would also be easy if it weren’t for the fact that you’ve already committed yourself to a way of BEING. But now you’re stuck in that reality because your ego has you convinced there’s no way out. Of course, there is a way out and that’s what you’re here to learn in this course.

You were born as a God with God like powers, which include the power to create your own reality just by deciding what to believe. By choosing what to believe, you’ve chosen who you will BE. And that’s BEING power, a pretty amazing power whether you’ve allowed yourself to see it or not.

The process for creating your new reality is quite simple; commit to a new way of BEING and then you’ll automatically attract who and whatever belongs in the reality of that way of BEING. You have the power right now to create any new reality you could dream up.

But most people won’t do that because our ego has us trapped in the manifested reality of our current BEING choice.

The problem as you journey through life is that you’ve been unconsciously using your remarkable BEING power to create all sorts of realities that are no longer serving your best interests.

The way out of your undesirable situation and into living in a happier, healthier, richer reality is a new BEING commitment. A new being commitment will require a substantial change in who you are BEING. The way out is your transformation in consciousness. That’s why participants enroll in the course.

What you’ll learn here won’t give you exciting new powers; instead we’ll be showing you how to use the power you already have to manifest what you DO want instead of what you don’t want.

What we teach always works, because you already are the God you need to be to make this work for you.

In this Personal Development Course, you’ll be finding your way out of the reality concepts that aren’t serving you and you’ll be reinventing your belief system, unlearning some things you thought were the truth.

God individuated Himself in you the day you were born and that gives you awesome God like powers, but He also gave you your ego. One of the most important things you’ll get from your participation in this course will be that of learning how to deal with your ego’s built in resistance to change.

You’ve been using BEING power, creating realities right and left without a clue that you had the power. But God also gave you an ego so that you could experience life in whatever material realities you’d choose to create.

God individuated Himself in you the day you were born. So you came into this world with amazing God-like powers, totally unaware that you had the power to create your own reality just by choosing what to believe. And you’ve been doing that, creating reality concepts ever since that first moment when you began to think.

But you’re here in this PD Course to transform yourself. And that means you’ll be changing your mind about who you will BE and what you will choose to believe. You’ll be growing in consciousness more by shedding ideas than in learning new ones. Most of us are a slave to some ideas that aren’t serving us.

Much of what you’ve previously chosen to believe is keeping you unhappy, unhealthy and/or poorer than you’ve wanted to be. In this PD Course, we’ll be showing you how to recreate your belief system. Transformation is the process for setting yourself free.

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A BEING Coach’s Responsibilities

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A BEING Coach’s Responsibilities

 

In any endeavor to improve the quality of our lives, ego resistance is the number one reason for failure. It will be your Being coach’s responsibility during each coaching call with you –

  • To confront your ego’s victim stories
  • To encourage you to believe in yourself
  • To coach and mentor you through the process of learning how to deal with that resistance.
  • To help you find the confidence and the courage to know who you are, know what you want and then to choose to BE the one who will have it
  • To coach you through the process of setting your goal for the 5, 8, and/or 16 weeks of the course
  • To encourage you to be on purpose and fully committed
  • To mentor you through the process of developing your God power consciousness and your personal power
  • To help you understand the true nature of BEING power so you can use that power to improve the quality of your life on a daily basis
  • To confront your ego’s victim stories
  • To help you find and replace stories that run your life
  • To lead you down the self-discovery path

You’ve signed on to participate in this Personal Development Course with the intention of transforming yourself and the quality of your life.

To accomplish your mission during the next 16 weeks, you must make a new out of the box BEING commitment that creates a whole new reality in which your goal for the course is manifested. You can set your goal(s) for 5, 8 and/or 16 weeks.

It is incredibly difficult for most people to accomplish this on their own because we have a powerful ego that is bound and determined to get us back in our old box. The Powerpact support group provides the space of nonresistance, which is the only place in which our ego can and will be transformed.

Your coach’s job is to encourage you and help you to stay on purpose for the next sixteen weeks. And when you have questions, your coach will ask questions to inspire you to look within for the answers, to tune into your own source of inner wisdom for answers. If your coach gave you an answer to your question, it would be his or her answer and not your own. To be transformed during the PD Course experience, you’ll want to find your own answers and those can only come from within. That inner source of wisdom is called, intuition.

You will also experience your change resistant ego working hard to lead you astray and trick you back into your old way of BEING. Your coach will help you in learning how to deal with ego’s resistance and to inspire you to stay the course, keeping you on purpose through the sixteen weeks.

To be transformed you’ll want to change your mind about some of the things you have believed to be true. Your own answers, those “ah ha” moments of revealed truth can only come from within. And those answers will be transformational.

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Week 1- BEING Responsible As A Powerpact Partner

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BEING Responsible As A Powerpact Partner

Your primary purpose as a Powerpact partner in this Personal Development Course is to create the space of nonresistance in which each of your Powerpact partners will be transformed. It’s called Unconditional Love, the space we create for another to be who they are with no intent to fix or change.

In order to manifest their intention for the course, your Powerpact partners must be transformed. His or her ego will, just naturally, be resisting that change and it is your job as a Powerpact partner to assist your partners in dealing with that ego resistance.

Ego resistance is not something to fret about; it is something to celebrate because it is clear evidence that you have made a new out of the box BEING commitment. That’s why your ego is upset.

In future lessons about the ego, you’ll want to learn as much as you can about ego’s tricks for getting you back in your old box. Understanding your ego will help you be a better Powerpact partner. Help your Powerpact partners see that resistance is something to celebrate.

Every healthy relationship has three necessary ingredients, all of which are necessary if the relationship is to survive and remain healthy. Your Powerpact meetings will be an empowering lesson in learning how to be a good relationship partner. Learn that lesson well and all of your relationships will thrive and continue to be healthy.

The three elements of a healthy relationship are:

  1. Love, (unconditional love)
  2. < Appreciation
  3. and Confront

Using love and appreciation as your tools, a major part of your function as a support group partner is to help the other two to believe in themselves.

Unconditional Love is not the nice guy act some of us have assumed it to be. Unconditional Love is tough love. You can love them for who they are with no intent to fix or change who they are BEING. But Unconditional Love as tough love would refuse to allow unacceptable behavior.

Unacceptable behavior would be breaking the Powerpact Partners’ Agreement to be on time for each scheduled call. So, I would suggest that you begin your relationship with the partners by coming to an agreement about:

  • Showing up for each call
  • Being on time or one minute early
  • Trade phone numbers so you can call if one of you is not on the Powerpact or the workshop call
  • Keeping each other on purpose
  • Keeping your agreements, maintaining integrity

About being real; read the lesson on integrity Agree to do the “What’s Going on with You” Exercise for each meeting

  • Your Powerpact is a working relationship

Keep it healthy by using all three elements of a working relationship – Love, Appreciation and Confront

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Week 1-Knowing What You Want and Choosing It

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Knowing What You Want and Choosing It

Self-Confidence Is Knowing Who You Are

 

When I was a kid, I had a big time inferiority complex and what I wanted more than anything else was to believe more in myself. I desperately wanted more of what I lacked most — self-confidence.

Years later while conducting a BEING Workshop for fifteen far above average successful people, I asked the most successful of them what he expected to gain from doing the workshop. He said, “Self-confidence.”

His answer surprised me because I considered him to be the most successful person I knew. But when I think about all of my subsequent years of coaching others, I can see that most of my coaching clients would have had the same request; “More confidence, please.”

As a kid, that’s what I wanted more than anything else, and fortunately, when I was four, I created an act that started me down a path that would help me grow my confidence. One day my feelings were badly hurt and as a result of that incident, I made up my mind I would never be hurt like that again.

On that day I created my “I don’t need anyone” act. To run my act, since couldn’t ask for help, I had no choice but to become self-sufficient and self-reliant. So, in the process of becoming my own problem solver, I just naturally became more confident, but somehow, that didn’t really solve my problem of feeling inferior.

It took me a few more years to solve that problem. Maybe that’s when I began to realize that I had several stories running my life, stories like, “I’m not good enough”, “Not smart enough”.

In a future lesson you will learn The Manifestor’s Success Formula, a four step course of action for transforming the quality of your life big time. That’s the step by step success formula for stepping out of your box and choosing the good life for yourself.

The first step in that self-empowering success plan is the self-confidence to know what you want.

 

For years I’ve been suggesting that self-confidence is the most powerful form of riches on the planet. I say, when you face the world with confidence you can have whatever you want from life. I know that’s true because once you’ve acquired self-confidence, all other forms of riches seem to come to you easily and effortlessly.

Self-confidence makes you awesomely powerful because, at the core of your BEING, as an individualization of God, belief in yourself and belief in God are one and the same. Stop and allow that thought to sink in for a moment;
BELIEF IN YOURSELF AND BELIEF IN GOD ARE THE SAME THING!

Self-confidence or personal power is BEING power. And BEING power is the power of God acting in and through you as you. A new BEING commitment is YOU, knowing what you want and choosing to BE the one who will have it.

That’s BEING power in action and that’s self-confidence doing the choosing. Before I came up with The Manifestor’s Success Formula my definition for self-confidence would have been belief in one’s self; I would have labeled self-confidence, ‘can do’ power. Back then, I said, confidence is freedom from doubt; it’s you, knowing you’ll have what it takes to handle whatever comes up in the process of manifesting what you want.

But while crafting the Manifestor’s Success Formula it dawned on me that knowing what you want must always be the first step in any workable formula for success and then, while thinking about it, I realized that self-confidence has to be the prime ingredient for knowing what you want.

Think about it this way: Before you can decide what belongs in your life and what does not, you must have previously decided who you will be. In other words, you must have a self-concept before you can begin to distinguish between what belongs in your life and what doesn’t.

So the fact that you are BEING confident would indicate that you’ve committed to a self-concept and pretty much know who you are. And having self-confidence would mean you’ve found some degree of personal power, made your BEING commitment and are, now, ready to exercise your power
of choice.

In other words, you now have the self-confidence to know what you want and
choose it.

Basically, life is about coming to know who you are as you go through life choosing what belongs in your life and rejecting what doesn’t. Self-confidence is sort of the bottom line or starting point for everything else that
goes on in your life. It’s the norm and everything that comes into your life or doesn’t after that is measured by that benchmark.

As a kid I was lucky to have had the freedom to wander the streets of downtown Albuquerque and do whatever I wanted without a great deal of parental supervision. In essence, I had the freedom to BE me more than most kids my age. So I made a lot of decisions on my own back then and many of those decisions turned out to be foolish choices.

When I made dumb decisions, I paid dearly for those mistakes and I learned something valuable from each mistake. Learning life’s lessons the hard way, early on in life, is a great way to grow up fast. As I see it now, I realize what an advantage I had over most kids my age.

And, looking back on that childhood, I can see that it was while making decisions on my own, making mistakes and choosing again that I grew my
confidence.

So, while reading this lesson, you might want to make it your intention to focus on raising the bar on your belief in yourself so that you’ll always know what you want and be able to choose it. The interesting thing about the process for growing your confidence is that it’s a sort of catch 22 situation.

You’ll need confidence to choose your way out of that box and it is only when you are out of that box that your self-confidence will grow. And of course, it takes courage to choose out of your box and you won’t be staking your claim on anything new and better unless you already have the self-worth to accept it.

What I’m saying here is that when you find yourself trapped in your box and somehow unable to choose, the courage to choose may not be what’s missing. You may be lacking the self-worth to accept it. We’ll talk about that in another lesson.

You’ll want to look closely at each of the self-empowering elements of the Manifestor’s Success Formula to find what’s lacking from your own success formula. It all works together, self-confidence, the courage to choose and the self-worth to accept it. And when you have all three, you’ll still need the
winner’s attitude to attract it.

You’ll grow your courage and your self-worth at the same time you’re upping the bar on your self-confidence. In other words, if you want the quality of your life to get better any time soon, you’ll want to make it your intention to put all four elements of the Manifestor’s Success Formula into play.

And you’ll want to have frequent out of the box adventures in order to stay on the fast track to success.

So, how do you become more self-confident?

What’s the sure-fire process for growing your confidence?

To answer that question let’s review my definition of self-confidence. I say SELF-CONFIDENCE IS THE ABILITY TO KNOW WHAT YOU WANT AND CHOOSE IT. So wouldn’t it make sense to assume that the quickest path toward increasing your confidence would be the frequent use of you power of choice.

And since our self-confidence can grow only when we are out of our box on some daring adventure, then it would seem wise to plan more out-of-the-box adventures. We’d speed up the self-growth process by thinking outside the box with the intention of choosing to better our life in some way.

In the process of becoming healthier, happier and richer, we’d just naturally grow more and more confident as we made numerous and frequent new out of the box BEING commitments.

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Week 1-Setting A Goal For The Sixteen Weeks

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Setting A Goal For The Sixteen Weeks

On Call One of the Personal Development Course, you will set the goal(s) you intend to manifest in the next sixteen weeks.

To make sure every participant has ample time to set his or her goal in the session you’ll want to be ready with your goal when it’s your turn. You will want to have previously decided and be clear about your intention so that you can share your new BEING commitment in less than two minutes.

Just keep in mind, the goal you set is primarily a new BEING commitment, not a DOING decision. There will probably be doing involved, but you’ll be committing yourself to BE the one to do the doing. The creative process is BE DO HAVE, not, DO HAVE BE.

You will be challenged if you’ve chosen a goal too far out of your box and way beyond your own ability to believe. Always state your goal(s) as “I choose to be the person who….

-Increases my monthly income by 25%

-Looses 1lb a week

-Goes to the gym 3 days a week, etc .

In this Personal Development Course we can guarantee results because we know how powerful you really are. We know that once you’ve made a solid committed BEING choice, your intended results must manifest because you are an individualization of God.

But you don’t know that for certain yet so we’re expecting you to prove that to us and yourself with manifested results during the sixteen weeks of this program.

The size of your goal?

There is absolutely no limit to what you can manifest other than the restrictions you’ve placed on yourself by deciding what you believe is possible for you. But during this Personal Development Course, you will raise that limit and manifest corresponding results many times.

For your goal setting you will choose an out of the box result that takes you outside your comfort zone and puts you in a sweat. But don’t choose an outcome that’s so far out, you don’t really believe it can happen.

You must believe it will happen or it won’t.

That’s the number one rule in goal setting. You will manifest results only at the level of your belief in what’s possible for you. So, if you are not totally convinced it will happen, it won’t. Your ego would be happy to have you choose an unbelievable goal.

In other words, you can expect your tricky ego to suggest a goal that is too far out because it wants you to fail. That’s why you must choose a goal that’s a baby step toward your ultimate goal. If you manifest your intention before the end of the sixteen weeks, you can immediately choose a bigger step.

It is always good to have a long term goal in mind, one that keeps you focused on where you’ll end up, but for this 16 week process, you’ll be taking only baby steps in that direction. Please don’t discount the value of baby step goals.

You are an individualization of God. Whatever you choose to believe will manifest and your goal size will increase as you raise the bar on your ability to believe. For example if you were to increase your income by only 30% every 90 days for the next three years, at the end of that period, your income would be 65 times what it is now.

The size of your manifestation this time around is not the important factor. What’s important is that you be able to step back at the end of sixteen weeks or less and say to yourself, “Wow, I really am that powerful!”
For your next baby step maybe you can double your current goal size.

Let us know if you would like help setting your goal(s). Send your request to darel@richbits.com or call 505-280-0930.

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Week 1-The Want/ Don’t Want Exercise

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The Want/ Don’t Want Exercise

When Clear About What You Don’t Want You’ll Know What You Do Want

This is the exercise you’ll want to use when you don’t know what you want. Unfortunately, not knowing what you want is a clear indication that you don’t know who you are. Or maybe we should say, it tells us you have not yet decided who you are, or even if you want to BE.

Anyway, this exercise should get you started down the path toward coming to know who you really are. The self-discovery path is a simple step by step process for deciding what belongs in your life and what does not.

And with each of your choices about what you will have or reject from your life, you will grow a little more self-confident and you’ll grow in consciousness. In most cases your choices will be out of the box BEING commitments because you can’t change the content of your life without a change in who you are BEING.

Reading this should give you a hint as to why you’ve had trouble knowing what you want. And doing the exercise should start you down the self-discovery path.

The Want/Don’t Want Exercise

If you’ve previously done this exercise, you may want to consider doing it again. If you’ve grown in consciousness, you are no longer who you were the last time you did it. This time around, I’m sure you’ll think of some new things to say “No” to.

Find an 8 1/2 x 11 ruled pad and draw a line down the middle of the sheet from top to bottom. On the left side of the line make a list of all the things in your life that you no longer want.

When you’ve finished deciding what to reject from your life, make a new list on the right side of the vertical line that once manifested would cancel out each of the Don’t Want items on that page. This is a very simple, but powerful exercise, because in doing it, not only will you have decided what you want in your life, you now have a clear idea about what you want to remove from your life.

You’ll find that you are inspired and empowered by making these decisions about what to keep and what to throw away. Now you’ll know what you want from life, but of course, knowing that, won’t get it for you.

To have the good life show up in your life, you must commit to BEING the one who will manifest that benefit. Are you ready to step out of your old box and BECOME more that you were?

Daydreaming about what we want is often a waste of time, because wanting it won’t get it for you. The only way you can ever have what you want from life is to choose to BE the one who will have it. That’s an out of the box BEING commitment.

But you need to know that once you’ve committed to BEING the one in your dream, you’re on dangerous ground, because you have a change resistant ego that that will be wanting you back in that old box.

You can expect your ego to use all of its tricks and traps as it tries desperately to get you back into BEING who you were being before. In another lesson you’ll learn about ego’s tricks and traps.

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Week 1-Use Your Understanding of the BEING Principle

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Use your understanding of the BEING Principle

 

As a stepping stone into BEING Power

 

God individuated Himself in you the day you were born. And that makes you a God whether you’ve accepted that as your truth or not. So where are you with the idea of BEING a God?

  1. Have you been ignoring that idea because it was too profound, too far outside your reality concept?
  2. Have you accepted that truth as a heartwarming intellectual concept?
  3.  Or are you actually feeling empowered by experiencing

    BEING the God in you, as BEING power?

If you had truly stepped into the role of BEING a God, you would be manifesting peace, poise and prosperity in all aspects of your life. You’d be enthusiastic, excited about your future, and your life would be working for you in all ways. You’d just naturally be healthier, happier and richer because those would have been your BEING choices.

But if you are still living your life as your change resistant ego, you would be struggling to make life work and you’d be telling yourself some victim story to explain why your life wasn’t working exactly the way you thought it should.

Which reality have you chosen for yourself? Are you BEING a God or are you BEING your ego?

Ernest Holmes, founder of what was once called, “SCIENCE OF MIND”, wrote: “God, in man, as man, is man”. And Holmes had it right, up to that point, in terms of understanding man’s relationship to God. But in my opinion, he didn’t take the idea of BEING God far enough.

His writings in the Science of Mind Textbook failed to take us beyond the theory of BEING God and show us how to BE the Gods he was telling us we were. And I think the reason for his omission was because, as an intellectual, he felt that knowing a truth and accepting that truth as your own was the ultimate “ah ha”.

But in my opinion, to take that truth to the next level, you would be proving that theory with awesome manifested results. You would be manifesting better health, more wealth and/or greater happiness into your life. You would be proving that theory to yourself by easily and effortlessly upgrading the quality of your living.

A great number of Ernest Holmes’ followers have fully accepted the idea that God, in man, as man. But they haven’t taken that truth to the next level, by actually BEING God and using their God power to manifest anything more than the space to park their car. If they had truly accepted themselves as Gods, they would be praying as God, not to God.

And Holmes didn’t take us beyond the theory because, as an intellectual, he believed understanding to be the ultimate. He thought you were home free, job done, when you could say, “I Got it”.

But I don’t agree. Understanding only lets you see where you’re going, you’ll be home free only when you are actually BEING God, using your God power to create a reality in which your worst problem, no longer exists.

I think understanding is the boobie prize, because even though that warm fuzzy feeling that comes from knowing a truth is wonderful, it will do nothing to improve your situation in life. When you are feeling powerful, BEING God, you will be intentionally manifesting remarkable out of the box improvements in of your life.

But in my opinion, to take that truth to the next level, you would be proving that theory with awesome manifested results. You would be manifesting better health, more wealth and/or greater happiness into your life. You would be proving that theory to yourself by easily and effortlessly upgrading the quality of your living.

A great number of Ernest Holmes’ followers have fully accepted the idea that God, in man, as man. But they haven’t taken that truth to the next level, by actually BEING God and using their God power to manifest anything more than the space to park their car. If they had truly accepted themselves as Gods, they would be praying as God, not to God.

So, now that you are inspired by that possibility, how do you take your intellectual concept about God out of theory and put it into practice?

Let’s begin with the realization that once you truly believe yourself to be an individualization of God, and you really understand what that means, you can then accept the challenge of proving that theory to yourself by manifesting some predetermined material result.

And when you stop to think about it, the answer is that simple; you’ll simply raise the bar on your belief in what’s possible for you. As an individualization of God, you will always automatically manifest a material reality that must be a perfect match for whatever you’ve chosen to believe.

So to begin to see yourself as a God, you’ll grow your belief in yourself as a powerful manifestor. You’ll choose a goal that puts you in a sweat, a goal that’s outside your comfort zone, but that you fully believe can and will happen. And because you believe it, it must happen, because you are a God.

Once the goal manifests as your material reality, you’ll realize, “Oh my God! I really am that powerful.”

That’s it! Once you begin seeing yourself as a powerful manifestor, you will also be seeing yourself as a God. That’s how you’ll go from understanding God to BEING God.

 


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Week 1-Understanding Is The Boobie Prize

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Understanding Is The Boobie Prize

 

When you say, “I Got It!”, you just lost it

 

Reading each of the lessons for this Personal Development Course will help you understand your relationship to God, but being aware that you are an individualization of God won’t transform your life. And that knowledge won’t solve your problems. When it comes down to the wire in terms of knowing God, understanding is the boobie prize.

The only way you can know God is to BE God. And in BEING God, using your BEING power, you can and will solve your biggest problem. You’ll solve your problems not by knowing about God, but by using your God power. The power of God in you is BEING power.

You’ll use that power to solve your problem by choosing a new way of BEING you. God individuated Himself in you and that fact of life makes you powerful in ways you may not have even imagined. In this PD Course you will be using your BEING power to manifest your goal for the sixteen weeks.

At the end of that time, you’ll be looking at those manifested results and celebrating, saying, “Oh my God, I really am that powerful!” You will have proven to yourself with manifested results that you are an individualization of God, a powerful manifestor. You will have gone way beyond intellectual understanding to knowing, by BEING God.

You will have taken BEING God out of theory and into practice.

Allow yourself to see that in the sixteen weeks of this PD Course you will have come to know God by BEING God.

Think about that idea for a moment and you’ll see that there’s no way to put a value on the experience of BEING God. And while you’re reflecting on that growth in your consciousness, you might want ask yourself what would happen to your God power awareness if you did the course again with even greater results.

As an individualization of God, you have two awesome God like powers:

The power to BE more than you were
 And the power to attract who and whatever belongs with that new way of BEING.

Your weekly lessons for this PD Course will provide you with a multitude of lessons, information and exercises that might lead you to the point of changing your mind about who you will be. And that’s whole idea behind giving you all that information.

But please don’t read those lessons and tell yourself, “I got it”, meaning that you now understand your relationship to God. Understanding God, intellectually won’t improve the quality of your life, because knowing that doesn’t change who you are BEING. Believe me; understanding is the booby prize

You are an individuation of God, and that’s good news, but the only way you can know God is to BE God. Our intention for you in this course is that you take your relationship to God out of intellectually understanding God and into experientially knowing.

You will only come to know you are a God by proving it to you with manifested results.

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Week 2- Expressing Unconditional Love as a Powerpact Partner

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Expressing Unconditional Love as a Powerpact Partner

In order to manifest your intention for sixteen weeks, your ego must accept the new BEING choice as the reality to maintain. In other words, your transformation won’t be complete until your ego comes along for the ride. And the only space within which your ego will change (be transformed) is in the space of nonresistance.

So your primary purpose as a Powerpact partner will be to create the space of nonresistance in which each of your Powerpact partners will be transformed. That non- judgmental attitude is called Unconditional Love.

It is the space we create for another person to be who they are with no intent to fix or change WHO THEY’RE BEING. But Unconditional Love is not always about being nice; Unconditional Love is tough love which is totally ready and willing to confront the unacceptable behavior of another.

Your Powerpact partners must be transformed in order to manifest their goal(s) for the course. Their ego will, just naturally, resist that change and your job as a Powerpact partner is to assist them in dealing with that ego resistance.

This means you must be willing and able to confront a Powerpact partner when they are not on purpose for being transformed or for manifesting their desired result. In other words, sometimes a kick in the butt confront would be more appropriate than being nice.

Ego resistance is never something to fret about; it is clear evidence that you have made a new out of the box BEING commitment. So it is a reason to celebrate. Just know that your ego is upset because you are out of your box.

The ego resistance will be covered in next week’s lessons. You’ll want to learn as much as you can about ego’s tricks for getting you back in your old box. Understanding your ego will help you deal with your own ego resistance and it will make you a better Powerpact partner.

 

Help your Powerpact partners see resistance not as something to fret about, but as something to celebrate. As a Powerpact partner, you will be in a relationship with two others, a great place to practice your relationship skills. Please use the experience as an opportunity to learn how to improve the quality of all your other relationships. With that in mind, know this:

Every healthy long lasting relationship will have three essential ingredients, all of which are necessary if the relationship is to survive and remain healthy. The three elements of a healthy relationship are:

1. Love, (Unconditional Love),

2. Appreciation and

3. Confront.

Your Powerpact meetings will be an empowering lesson in learning how to be a good relationship partner. Learn that lesson well and all of your relationships will thrive and continue to be healthy.

Using love and appreciation as your tools, a major part of your function as a Powerpact partner is to help the other two to believe in themselves. And one of the primary ingredients in keeping a relationship healthy is to have your partner like themselves when they are with you.

So, make it your intention to help your Powerpact partners grow in self-worth and self- confidence. With that in mind, you’ll want to confront their victim stories and help them find their personal power.

But how do you confront someone in the space of unconditional love? Here’s how: Love them for who they’re being and confront their unacceptable behavior.

Unconditional Love is not the nice guy act some of us have assumed it to be. Unconditional Love is tough love. You can love them for who they are with no intent to fix or change who they are BEING. But Unconditional Love as tough love would refuse to allow unacceptable behavior.

An example of unacceptable behavior would be breaking the Powerpact partners’ agreement to be on time for each scheduled call. I would suggest that you begin your Powerpact meetings by coming to an agreement about:

  • Showing up for each call
  • Being on time or one minute early
  • Trade phone numbers so you can call if one of you is not on the Powerpact or the PDCourse call
  • Keeping each other on purpose
  • Keeping your agreements, maintaining integrity
  • About being real; read lesson on integrity – (in Call 2’s lessons)
  • Agree to do the “WHAT’S GOING ON WITH YOU” exercise for each meeting
  • Your Powerpact is a working relationship
  • Keep it healthy by using all three elements of a working relationship, Love, Appreciation and Confront

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Week 2-The Powerpact Integrity Exercise

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The Powerpact Integrity Exercise

How Your Ego Gets You Back In The Box

 

The primary purpose of your Powerpact call is to create the space of non-resistance in which transformations can and will take place. That’s the space we create for one another with no intent to fix or change. It’s called, “Unconditional Love”.

It would seem only natural to assume that there would be no need to confront each other in the space of Unconditional Love, but such is not the case. Unconditional Love is tough love that just naturally confronts unacceptable behavior.

During your Powerpact call it is recommended that you confront your partner if they are not being real.

It is a fact of life that before you can be transformed, you must first be real. It is a rule in life that you can’t get to where you want to be until you’ve first made it okay to be where you are now. Being real is making it okay to be where you are now.

Egos hide out in the status quo because they are afraid they’ll be hurt if others knew they were afraid. So they pretend to be brave and run their act or they tell their victim story. In either case they’re not being real and cannot be transformed until they step out of their victim act.

As a responsible Powerpact partner, you’ll want to confront their stories or acts with the intent of having them be real on the Powerpact calls. If you suspect that a Powerpact partner is not being real, I would recommend that you do The Integrity Exercise below.

The Integrity Exercise:

A asks B, ”what’s going on with you right now?”

If B is being real, he’ll give you a responsible answer. In which case, A will respond with, “I got that!”

If B responds with his act or a victim story, A will answer, “I didn’t get that.”

Usually this will be the only confront that’s necessary. B will then share what is really going on with them and you can support them in being who they are with unconditional love.

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Week 2-The Source Always Says, “Yes”

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The Source Always Says, “Yes”

To Your BEING Commitments

The laws of the Universe are set up so that whatever you want from life is yours for the asking, once you’ve learned how to ask. It may take some time for you to realize that the request had to be in the form a BEING commitment. No matter what you hope to accomplish in life, your success will always be a BEING choice manifesting.

The order of creation begins with BE, then DO and then HAVE. Want your life to improve in some way? Then your first step must always be to choose to BE the one to whom that quality of life belongs. BE, DO, HAVE, life really is that simple. You can have what you want from life if…

You know what you want
Have the courage to step out of your box and choose it
o Are committed to BEING the one who will have it

Have a winner’s attitude to attract it
And the self-worth to accept it
Once You Are Committed, the Source Always Say “Yes”.

If the Source always says “Yes”, then those of us who haven’t yet seen our desires materialize are either not tuned into the Source or we’re asking the wrong question.

To understand the problem, you must begin with the premise that we are each an individualization of God. The power of God in you is BEING power. And every thought you think is part of the process for choosing who you will BE, as in, we become what we think about.

The Universe pays attention – actually it is always tuned into your BEING choices and then it automatically delivers content that must be a perfect match for that way of BEING. As a God, all your thoughts are BEING commitments and all your prayers are being answered.

Allow yourself to see that If you’re not getting what you want from life, it’s because you are not making the appropriate BEING choices; you’re using the wrong requisition form.

The Source doesn’t give you what you want; It tunes into who you are BEING and gives you the material manifestation of your BEING choices.

What would your life have been like had you learned early on, that when you say, “life is hard” or “I can’t” or “I’m not good enough”, the Universe will always respond with, “Whatever you say, you’re right.”

When you say stuff like that, you’ve just said a prayer and your prayer is answered. You’ve chosen to BE someone who can’t and the Universe has responded by providing you with the life experience from the point of view of someone who can’t.

When you declare yourself a winner, the Universe says, “Okay.” And when you declare yourself to be a victim, the Source says, “Yes” to that too. Then it provides you with the experience of living your life as a victim.

When you say, “I want”, the Universe says “Yes” and you get to be someone who wants, but not someone who has. When you say, “I wish” or “I hope”, you get to be someone who hopes. Every thought you think is a prayer and every prayer gets a “Yes” answer.

Many times a day, if you’re paying attention, you’ll hear yourself say, “I am” and whether you complete that BEING statement with “I can” or “I can’t” the Universe will always respond with, “If you say so.”

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Week 2-The Twenty Reasons Why

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The Twenty Reasons Why you want what’s outside that box

 

20 Reasons for Choosing to BE Happier, Healthier, Richer

 

What you want from life that you don’t have, for instance your goal for this course, will only be found outside your box and you’ll need to be highly motivated before you’ll make that out of the box choice.

To find your motivation, I’m suggesting that you create a list of 20 reasons why you want that benefit in your life. This is the real test for knowing just how serious you really are about manifesting your goal(s) for the course.

Create a list of 20 ways that the quality of your life would improve if you were BEING the person who lost 15 pounds, increased your client base, met the perfect companion and/ or doubled your income.

This list will be the twenty real benefits you would gain from manifesting your goal for the course. Think about how fantastically enjoyable your life would be if you doubled your self-confidence, raised the bar on your self-worth and all your needs were filled.

Once you’ve created the list, you will be using those 20 reasons to create the vision that motivates you to commit. Put your imagination to work in thinking about those benefits.

If you’re not all that determined in wanting that life style change, you may not be able to come up with 20 reasons for having it.

If you can’t come up with 20 ways that your life would improve if you were BEING the person living in the reality of having your goal manifested, then you are probably not really ready to choose that goal or maybe your goal is not big enough to excite you or perhaps it is too far outside the box. In which case, you may want to rethink your goal. I suggest that you talk this over with your BEING coach.

Another major reason you may not be ready to choose out of your box would be that you had not yet chosen out of your old way of BEING. You can’t really choose to BE rich if you have not yet chosen out of “NOT RICH”. You’ll learn more about solving that problem in a lesson from week 5 titled, “The Natural Order of Change”.

Please allow yourself to see that if you have indecision about BEING happier, richer, and/or healthier, not choosing IS, in fact, A BEING CHOICE. By deciding not to create the list, YOU ARE unconsciously choosing not to be happier, richer and/or healthier.

Think about that for a minute. Choosing not to be happier, richer and/or healthier is the same thing as choosing to BE unhappy, poor and/or unhealthy. Is that what you want?

So ask yourself this question, “Do I want the good life or do I want to continue my life the way it is now?”

Prioritizing the List Once your list is complete, give yourself a pat on the back, but you’re not done yet. Next, you’ll want to prioritize your list by picking the top three items on your 20 reasons list and visualize daily what your life would be like if those benefits had already shown up in your life.

Then think about who you would BE BEING if that vision were now your reality, visualizing in present time consciousness, imagining how you would feel if you were experiencing those benefits NOW, putting yourself into that picture.

As you see yourself in your new vision, visualize what your life would be like living your dream of being rich in whatever way fulfills the goal(s) you selected for this course.

The prime ingredient to YOUR new reality is the BEING choice motivated by your vision.

Share your list with your Powerpact partners and your BEING coach so that they can support you in manifesting your goal.

Please notice that any struggle you may have in creating your list is ample evidence that your ego is resisting that change by blocking your ability to think of reasons. Your ego is desperately trying to prevent your making any sort of a new BEING COMMITMENT.

Be sure to share this with your Powerpact partners and your Being coach so that they can help you deal with the ego resistance.


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Week 2-Understanding the BEING Principle

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Understanding the BEING Principle

 Most people find the BEING Principle difficult to understand and even harder to explain, especially when someone asks the question, “Yes, but how do I do that?” The BEING Principle is simple and easily understood, if you think of it as an agreement with yourself about who you will be.

And even more important to realize is that your BEING commitment is an agreement with the Universe about who you will be.

Try that perspective on for size and you’ll find the BEING Principle easier to understand and explain. Think about it this way. Each time you make a new BEING commitment you’ve come to a new agreement with yourself about who you will be. And that’s how the BEING Principle works.

The Universe is tuned into who you are BEING at all times. So, as soon as you’ve changed your mind about who you will be, it automatically delivers appropriate content. Your new BEING commitment is like a tomato seed planted in your garden.

That seed automatically draws everything it needs from the earth to become a healthy fruit bearing tomato plant. Your BEING commitment, likewise, draws everything it needs from the Source.

Let that idea sink in and you’ll begin to realize that there could be several benefits gained by accepting the BEING Principle as the solution for your health, wealth and relationship problems. For instance, once you’ve accepted the agreement idea:

 

  • You’d find it easier to think about solving problems by making a new agreement with yourself about who you will be, perhaps a simple commitment like choosing to BE happy.
  • You’d realize that you could solve almost any problem by simply making a new agreement with yourself about who you will be, relative to that situation.
  • You’ll know that your health, wealth and relationship problems are simply BEING choices manifesting and all solvable with a new agreement.
  • Relationships fizzle out and die when issues go unresolved. The solution for your relationship problem is to simply make a new agreement with your relationship partner relative to the unresolved issue.
  • Money is attracted to you or repelled from you as a result of who you have committed yourself to be relative to money. The obvious solution for your money problems would be to create a new agreement with yourself about who you will be in that relationship.
  • If you are overweight, it is because you have an agreement with your body that you will be that heavy. A diet would violate that agreement. But knowing that, you can easily solve your overweight problem by making a new agreement with your body about your new weight standard.

Think about your whole life, your physical health, your financial well-being and all your relationships, as the natural outcome of agreements you’ve made with yourself. Then allow yourself to see that those agreements are subject to change whenever you decide it’s time to improve your circumstances.

Do that and you’ll see that agreements are obviously a more important part of your life than you’ve realized. What you are experiencing as your life is simply your BEING choices manifesting. And to simplify it even farther, your life is your agreements about who you will be, manifesting as your material reality.

Accept that premise as your reality concept and you’ll see that all you’d have to do to improve the quality of your life, at any time, would be to simply come to some new agreements about who you’ll be.

Every relationship with another is an unwritten agreement about who you will be, each for the other. Think about this in terms of all of your relationships and when you’re ready to solve your relationship problems, look for the unresolved issues.

Every problem in life begins as a situation that becomes a problem, but only if the parties involved fail to deal with that situation in a timely fashion. Think about this and you’ll see that almost every relationship problem can be solved if the concerned parties are willing to come to a new agreement.

Once you’ve begun to think of your life as an agreement with yourself and the Source about who you will be, you’ll know that these problems can be solved with a new BEING commitment—a new agreement with yourself.

Once you’ve chosen who you will be, your life becomes an agreement between you and the Universe as to who you will be. The Universe, Source or God then automatically delivers content that will be a perfect match for whoever you’ve chosen to be.

You made the agreement and the Universe always says, “Yes”, keeping the agreement. Your word of power is, “I AM”.

In the Christian bible you’ll find this written: “In the beginning was the word and the word was with God, and the word was God, and the word was “I am”. What does this mean for you? It means, the power of God in you is BEING power and God’s word, spoken in and through you as you is, “I am”.

This is true for all of us. And since most of us haven’t a clue about the awesome power in our spoken word, we often use it to render ourselves powerless. With words like, “I can’t” or “I’m not good enough” we shoot ourselves in the foot.

With that in mind, you may want to make a new agreement with yourself to consciously become more powerful by putting the power of God into your word as you speak it. And you might want to pay attention to the words you speak and how you feel about yourself as you speak your word.

Allowing yourself to feel the power in your word as you speak it will help you become a powerful manifestor more quickly and easily. Thinking of yourself as powerful will allow you to set your goal for the course knowing beyond a shadow of a doubt that those results will manifest. So, how do you make your word powerful?

When you make an appointment to meet someone at a specific time, you’ve given your word. If you fail to show up on time, you’ve proven by your actions that your word is worthless.

When you fail to honor your word, it’s you, not the other person who is damaged by your lack of integrity. It is you. The power of God in you is in your word, realize it or not.

Failing to keep your word uses that God power to declare you powerless. Your spoken word has power and your manifesting powers will grow to the degree that you believe in yourself. And you will believe in yourself to the degree that you keep your word.

When you agree to meet someone at a specific time you are giving your word. How often do you keep your word?

You’ve joined the Personal Development Course with the intention of proving yourself to be a powerful manifestor of results.

What you’ll want to accept as your truth is that you will only be powerful to the degree that you’ve learned to believe in yourself. So, make an agreement with yourself to grow your personal power by always keeping your word. This is how you’ll amplify and continue growing your belief in yourself.

 


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Week 2-Diets Don’t Work

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Diets Don’t Work Because They Are A DOING Solution for A BEING Problem

 

Many of us diligently use will-power and watch our eating habits, hoping to control our body weight by dieting. But dieting doesn’t work because it’s a DOING solution for a problem that can only be solved with a new BEING commitment.

If you think those extra pounds have accumulated on your body because of your eating habits, you may be right, but I suspect that the real problem is not with your diet, but with your self-concept. Dieting does not solve self-image problems.

You’ve chosen your self-image and your body is simply fulfilling that ideal, maintaining a body weight that matches that BEING choice. This may sound like a fairy tale, but it’s not. A great many people eat whatever they want without ever gaining weight.

As a god, if you believe a certain kind of food will make you fat, it will because that’s what you believe. But it is also true that if you believe the exact opposite, you could eat that same food and not gain any weight.

As long as you continue to label yourself powerless to solve your weight problems, a victim of your eating habits, you will remain a victim of your own Belief System. Your weight problems are a manifestation of your BS.

If you were to step out of your box, right now, and commit yourself to BEING your ideal weight, you could eat anything you wanted and not gain a pound. Once your body has accepted this new ideal it will keep you fit and healthy from that point on, no matter what you eat.

Your body will maintains the new norm and discard excess food as waste. Let’s face it, up until this moment you’ve been committed to some ideas about yourself and food that have been keeping you overweight.

Up until now you’ve trapped yourself in an overweight body because you believe certain types of food will cause you to gain weight. And what you’ve chosen to believe is true, but it is true only because that’s what you believe. So, where do you start?

The solution for a weight problem must begin by rejecting the whole idea of carrying all those extra pounds around all day, everywhere you go, it begins with your emphatic

“NO” to being overweight. Before you can create the space for the new to show up in your life, you must first say “NO” to the old.

The process is simple, but you won’t find it easy. You’ve probably lived in that overweight body for a while now and when you make your new BEING commitment, you can expect your ego to resist, big time.

Once you start the process, you won’t just be shedding pounds you’ll be raising the bar on your self-worth and your self-confidence will grow by leaps and bounds each step of the way. You’ll be reinventing your self-image, gaining a new level of self-respect with a renewed enthusiasm for life.

Choose your ideal weight and then commit to BEING the one living that ideal. It’s as simple as that, and you’ll have everyone in the Personal Development Course supporting you in that commitment. If you chose a goal to lose weight, share your ideal weight goal with your Powerpact partners and with your BEING coach.

 


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